NEW Year Wishes...

My New Year Wish ! Gift that I

May bring no tear to any eye

Hope Every things Goes fine in 2011 ............

பிறந்த நாள் வாழ்த்துக்கள் அம்மா

அம்மாவை பற்றி கவிதையா 

நிச்சயமாக முடியாது என்னால்
காதலியை பற்றி எழுத
ஒரு காகிதமும்
சில பொய்களும் போதும்...!
அம்மா உன்னை பற்றி
எழுத உலகத்தில் உள்ள
அணைத்து காகிதங்களும் பத்தாது
என்னை பொறுத்தவரை
கடவுளை நான் நம்ப காரணமே
எதை எதையோ படைத்த அவன்
அம்மாவையும் படைததர்க்காகதான்..!!

பிறந்த நாள் வாழ்த்துக்கள் அம்மா ... 

IPL Season 4 Begains

With an eye to the next year's players' auction, the eight teams that participated in the last three season of the Indian Premier League retained only twelve players altogether.

In this Season we will have 10 Teams Kochi & Pune will join with old 8 Teams 

Twelve players who were retained by their franchisees are:

Chennai Super Kings: MS Dhoni, Suresh Raina, Murali Vijay and Albie Morkel

Mumbai Indians: Sachin Tendulkar, Harbhajan Singh, Kieron Pollard, Lasith Malinga

Royal Challengers Bangalore: Virat Kohli

Delhi Daredevils: Virender Sehwag

Rajasthan Royals: Shane Warne and Shane Watson

We can Expect More player's by the End of Week 

Trust in God. Always ! ( TIG )

A man found a cocoon of a butterfly. One day a small opening appeared. He sat and watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its body through that little hole. Then it seemed to stop making any progress. It appeared as if it had gotten as far as it could, and it could go no further.


So the man decided to help the butterfly. He took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of the cocoon.

The butterfly then emerged easily. But it had a swollen body and small, shriveled wings.
The man continued to watch the butterfly because he expected that, at any moment, the wings would enlarge and expand to be able to support the body, which would contract in time.


Neither happened! In fact, the butterfly spent the rest of its life crawling around with a swollen body and shriveled wings. It never was able to fly.


What the man, in his kindness and haste, did not understand was that the restricting cocoon and the struggle required for the butterfly to get through the tiny opening were God's way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly into its wings so that it would be ready for flight once it achieved its freedom from the cocoon.

Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our lives. If God allowed us to go through our lives without any obstacles, it would cripple us.

We would not be as strong as what we could have been. We could never fly!

**Story of Appreciation**

One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company.

He passed the first interview, the director did the last interview, made
the last decision.

The director discovered from the CV that the youth's academic
achievements were excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never had a year when he did not score.

The director asked, "Did you obtain any scholarships in school?" the
youth answered "none".

The director asked, " Was it your father who paid for your school fees?" The youth answered, "My father passed away when I w as one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees.

The director asked, " Where did your mother work?" The youth answered, "My mother worked as clothes cleaner. The director requested the youth to show his hands The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.

The director asked, " Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes
before?" The youth answered, "Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books. Furthermore, my mother can wash clothes faster than me.

The director said, "I have a request. When you go back today, go and
clean your mother's hands, and then see me tomorrow morning.*

The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went back, he happily requested his mother to let him clean her hands. His
mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to the kid.

The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly. His tear fell as he did
that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother
shivered when they were cleaned with water.

This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fee. The bruises in the mother's hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his
graduation, academic excellence and his future.

After finishing the cleaning of his mother hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother.

That night, mother and son talked for a very long time.

Next morning, the youth went to the director's office.

The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes, asked: " Can you tell me
what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?"

The youth answered, " I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished
cleaning all the re maining clothes'

The Director asked, " please tell me your feelings."

The youth said, Number 1, I know now what is appreciation. Without my mother, there would not the successful me today. Number 2, by working together and helping
my mother, only I now realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done. Number 3, I have come to appreciate the importance and value of family relationship.

The director said, " This is what I am looking for to be my manager.
I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of
others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life. You are hired.

Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates. Every employee worked diligently and as a team. The company's performance improved tremendously.

A child, who has been protected and habitually given whatever he wanted, would d evelop "entitlement mentality" and would always put himself first. He would be ignorant of his parent's efforts. When he starts work, he assumes that every person must listen to him, and when he becomes a manager, he would never know the sufferings of his employees and would always blame others. For this kind of people, who may be good academically, may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of achievement. He will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or are we destroying the kid instead?*

You can let your kid live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it. After a meal, let them wash their plates and bowls together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person. The most important thing is your kid learns how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learns the ability to work with others to get things done.

நீண்ட நாள் சுமை முடிந்தது  இன்று .. 3 Yrs Burden comes to an end.. Very much Happy Yahoooooooooo.

Thanks Machi... 

Making a Good Decision

Making a good decision can be difficult and overwhelming. But, there are some decision-making steps we can follow to help you make a good decision.

·         Take a deep breath. When you need to make a good decision, the last thing you need is anxiety or stress interfering with your internal compass. So try to separate your immediate emotions from the decision-making process.

·         Mark out the parameters of the decision clearly: What choices do you have?

·         Gather as much information as you can about each alternative - talk to the appropriate people, solicit advice from friends and family, and research by reading books and magazine or newspaper articles.

·         Many people will tell you that making a good decision involves weighing the pros and cons of each option. This is a common way to make decisions, but it many not be the best way. There is a better way to make good decisions that will allow you to tap into what will make you happy in the future.

Put an end to collecting information about your decision. Avoid thinking that with just a little more time and information, you'll be able to make the one perfect decision

என்னடா வாழ்க்கை என்று தளர்ந்து இருக்கும் போது 

தன்னம்பிக்கையுடன் நடந்து செல்லும் குருடன் !!!

Recognition

 “Recognition” - realization or acknowledgment this is the most necessary in all our personal and official life...

Recognition is identification of something already known or acknowledgement of something as valid.

There are many kinds of recognition. One of the easiest and most effective forms of recognition is praise. This is more enough in our daily personal life but when comes to Official???? Question mark blinks b4 us .only praise cannot do any thing

Employee recognition is not just a nice thing to do for people. Employee recognition is a communication tool that reinforce and rewards the most important outcome people create for business.

Recognition is equally powerful for both the organization and the employee.

"There are two things people want more than sex and money -- recognition and praise." --Mary Kay Ash

Stress Management & Tips

Stress is a major problem for many people — a hectic, stressful job, a chaotic home life, bills to worry about, and bad habits such as unhealthy eating, drinking and smoking can lead to a mountain of stress.

But when stress gets too high, it causes us to be unhappy and unhealthy.

There are some tips to Overcome Stress 

I won’t guarantee that all of these will work for All as each person is different. Pick and choose the ones that will work best for you, and give them a try. One at a time.

1. One thing at a time. This is the simplest and best way to start reducing your stress, and you can start today. Right now. Focus as much as possible on doing one thing at a time. Clear your desk of distractions. Pick something to work on. 

2. Simplify your schedule. A hectic schedule is a major cause of high stress. Simplify by reducing the number of commitments in your life to just the essential ones. Learn to say no to the rest — and slowly get out of commitments that aren’t beneficial to you. Schedule only a few important things each day, and put space between them. Get out of meetings when they aren’t absolutely essential. Leave room for down time and fun.

3. Get moving. Do something each day to be active — walk, hike, play a sport, go for a run, do yoga. It doesn’t have to be grueling to reduce stress. Just move. Have fun doing it.

4. Develop one healthy habit this month. Other than getting active, improving your health overall will help with the stress. But do it one habit at a time. Eat fruits and veggies for snacks. Floss every day. Quit smoking. Cook something healthy for dinner. Drink water instead of soda. One habit at a time.

5. Do something calming. What do you enjoy that calms you down? For many people, it can be the “get moving” activity discussed above. But it could also be taking a nap, or a bath, or reading, or having sex (which can also be considered a “get moving” activity if you do it for longer than 5 minutes). Other people are calmed by housework or yard work. Some people like to meditate, or take a nature walk. Find your calming activity and try to do it each day.

6. Simplify your finances. Finances can be a drain on your energy and a major stressor. If that’s true with you, figure out ways to simplify things. Automate savings and bill payments and debt payments. Spend less by going shopping (at malls or online) much less. Find ways to have fun that don’t involve spending money.

7. Have a blast! Have fun each day, even if it’s just for a few minutes. I like to play with my kids — they take my mind off everything and are really hilarious. I also like to play sports (again, often with my kids). Board games are fun. Sex, again, can be a fun activity. Whatever you choose, be sure to laugh.

8. Get creative. Throwing yourself into a creative activity is another great way to de-stress and to prevent stress. I like writing, but others like to paint or play music or sketch or make pottery or do interior design or build things.

9. Declutter. This is a favorite of mine. I like to take 20-30 minutes and just go through a room, getting rid of stuff we don’t use or need anymore. I look around at anything that’s cluttering up a room, and get rid of it or find a better place for it. When I’m done, I have a nice, peaceful environment for work, play, and living. Do this a little at a time — it can be one of your “fun activities”.

10. Be early. I will admit that it’s hard to be early when you have to get 6 kids ready (seriously — try it!). But being late can be very stressful. Try to leave earlier by getting ready earlier, or by scheduling more space between events. Things always take longer than normal, so schedule some buffer time: extra time to get ready, to commute, to do errands before you need to be somewhere, to attend a meeting before another scheduled appointment. If you get somewhere early, it’s good to have some reading material.

Touching Moments

Here are some Most Touching Moments ....

Mom Love & Care

Really i dont find any words for MOM's Love .. Love u Mom

Dad's Affection

Almost Any Man Can Be A Father It Takes Someone Extremely Special To Be A Dad

Love "The course of true love never did run smooth."

Friends forever

“Some people go to priests; others to poetry; I to my friends.”

Touching Moments Conts ... Forever

Vino

வாழ்க்கை

வாழ்க்கை என்பது ஒரு வட்டம் இது பரிச்சயம் ஆனா டயலாக் நானும் வெயிட் பண்றேன் என்னோட சைக்கிள் மேலேயே போகாம பஞ்சர் தான் ஆகுது 

என்னட வாழ்க்கை இது

" நாம் "

" நாம் " என்பது எவ்வளவு பெரிய வார்த்தை என்பதை உன்னை பார்த்த போது தான் புரிந்துகொண்டேன், நன்பேண்டா.....

"இதுவும் கடந்து போகும்"

"இதுவும் கடந்து போகும்"

"எல்லா காலங்களுக்கும், சந்தர்ப்பங்களுக்கும் பொருத்தமாக வழி காட்டக்கூடிய ஒரு சுருக்கமான மந்திரமோ, வாக்கியமோ இருக்கிறதா?" என்று ஒரு சக்கரவர்த்தி தன் சபையில் இருந்த அறிஞர் பெருமக்களைக் கேட்டார். 

சர்வரோகங்களுக்கும் ஒரே நிவாரணி என்கிற மாதிரி அவர் கேட்டதற்கு அந்த அறிஞர் பெருமக்கள் ஒன்று கூடி சிந்தித்தார்கள். பலரும் பலதைச் சொன்னார்கள். ஆனால் அதெல்லாம் ஒரு சந்தர்ப்பத்திற்குப் பொருத்தமாகத் தோன்றியது இன்னொன்றிற்கு அபத்தமாகத் தோன்றியது. எனவே அவற்றையெல்லாம் அவர்கள் ஒதுக்கி விட்டார்கள்.

கடைசியில் ஒரு முதிய அறிஞர் ஒன்று சொல்ல அவர்களுக்கு அதுவே சரியான வாசகமாகப் பட்டது. அதை ஒரு காகிதத்தில் எழுதிக் கொண்டு வந்தனர். "அரசே! நீங்கள் கேட்ட கேள்விக்கான பதில் இதில் உள்ளது. ஆனால் இதை நீங்கள் இப்போது படிக்கக் கூடாது. நீங்கள் உங்கள் வாழ்க்கையின் மிக இக்கட்டான சூழ்நிலையில் தான் எடுத்துப் படிக்க வேண்டும்" என்றனர்.

சக்கரவர்த்தியும் அதை ஏற்றுக் கொண்டு அதை ஒரு வைர மோதிரத்தின் அடியில் வைத்துக் கொண்டு அதை விரலில் மாட்டிக் கொண்டார். சில காலம் கழித்து பக்கத்து நாட்டுடன் போர் மூள அந்தச் சக்கரவர்த்தி போரில் படு தோல்வி அடைந்தார். தன் உயிரைக் காப்பாற்றிக் கொள்ள அவர் தப்பியோட வேண்டியதாயிற்று. எதிரிப்படையினர் துரத்தி வர ஒரு காட்டுப் பாதையில் ஓடிய சக்கரவர்த்தி ஓரிடத்தில் அப்பாதை முடிந்து ஒரு பெரிய பள்ளத்தாக்கு தான் அதற்குப் பின் இருந்ததைக் கண்டார். மேலே போக வழியில்லை. பின் செல்லவும் வழியில்லை. தொலைவில் எதிரி வீரர்கள் வரும் காலடி ஓசை வேறு கேட்டது.

அந்த இக்கட்டான சூழ்நிலையில் என்ன செய்வதென்று கலங்கிய சக்கரவர்த்திக்கு அந்த அறிஞர்கள் தந்த வாசகம் பற்றிய நினைவு வர வைர மோதிரத்தினடியில் இருந்த அந்த காகிதத்தைப் பிரித்துப் படித்தார். அதில் எழுதியிருந்தது-"இதுவும் கடந்து போகும்". அதை மீண்டும் படித்தார். மனதில் பொறி தட்டியது.

சில நாட்களுக்கு முன் அவர் பெரிய சக்கரவர்த்தியாக இருந்தார். எல்லா செல்வமும், படைபலமும் அவரிடம் இருந்தன. அவை எல்லாம் இன்று அவரைக் கடந்து போய் விட்டன. இன்று தோல்வியும், தனிமையும் மட்டுமே இருக்கின்றன. இதுவும் ஒரு கட்டத்தில் போகுமல்லவா?.... சிந்திக்க சிந்திக்க சொல்லொணா அமைதி அவரை சூழ்ந்தது. லேசான மனதுடன் எதிரிகளை எதிர்நோக்கி நின்றார். ஆனால் எதிரி வீரர்கள் காட்டின் மற்றொரு பாதையைத் தேர்ந்தெடுத்து அவரைத் தேடுவது, குறைந்து வந்த அவர்கள் காலடியோசை மூலம் தெரிந்தது. 

கடைசியில் தப்பித்து தன் நேச நாடுகளின் உதவி கொண்டு மீண்டும் படைகளைத் திரட்டி போரிட்டு எதிரிகளைத் தோற்கடித்து அவர் பெருவெற்றி பெற்றார். நாட்டு மக்களின் வாழ்த்தும், வெற்றி வாகை சூடிய பூரிப்பும் சேர்ந்த போது அவருக்கு மனதில் கர்வம் வந்தது. "அப்படி சுலபமாக நான் விட்டுக் கொடுத்து விடுவேனா? என்னை வெல்வது யாருக்கும் சாத்தியமா?". அந்த எண்ணம் வர வர சூரிய ஒளிபட்டு அவர் வைர மோதிரம் பளீரிட்டது. படிக்காமலேயே அந்த செய்தியை அது நினைவூட்டியது. "இதுவும் கடந்து போகும்". அந்தக் கணத்தில் அவர் கர்வம் நீங்கியது. அன்றிலிருந்து அவர் வாழ்க்கையில் அந்த வாக்கியம் தாரக மந்திரம் ஆகியது. அமைதி குறையாத அரசரென அவர் எல்லோராலும் பாராட்டு பெறும்படி ஆட்சியையும் வாழ்க்கையையும் நடத்தினார்.

நம்முடைய இதுநாள் வரை வாழ்க்கையையும் திரும்பிப் பார்த்தால் இந்த வாக்கியத்தின் மகத்தான உண்மையை உணர முடியும். எத்தனை வெற்றிகள், எத்தனை தோல்விகள், எத்தனை மகிழ்ச்சிகள், எத்தனை துக்கங்கள்..... எல்லாம் வந்து சிறிது காலம் தங்கி கடந்து போயிருக்கின்றன. 

இயற்கையின் விதியே இது என்று உளமார உணர்ந்து தெளியும் போது கிடைக்கும் அமைதி சாதாரணமானதல்ல. 

CSK The Champ

Chennai Super Kings, winners of the CLT20 2010


Easy win for Chennai .. Yesterday India & Today the World ..

CLT20

Good come back by CSK in last couple of overs but fails to cont in Super over ..Wht a thriller match

Congrats Victoria

Tough Task ahead CSK ..

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